This blog is designed to act as the primary form of communication between our group members to discuss and analyze our contemporary issue of sexuality.
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Presentation Tomorrow!
I have a laptop that's not a mac so I can bring it to class tomorrow and hopefully it'll sync up with the projector.
Zach
Almost there!
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Write-up
Friday, November 19, 2010
Tutorial Recap
Just to make sure I understood everything that we just discussed in tutorial, I've got a few follow-up questions:
1. We are now focusing on the fact that there are opposing social forces (ie religion vs. media) that are telling us different things about virginity and thus people are confused as to how to interpret these messages.
2. Are we still sticking to the progression part of the progression vs. promiscuity, because we argued that people have choice now in whether they want to have sex before marriage or not?
3. I know we said that the majority of the video will be focusing on the double-standard of virginity and how it creates confusion, but how are we going to relate it to the broader sexual culture?
4. I think our key message at the end is going to be something to the effect of: as with most things that are socially constructed, your personal opinion on virginity is a product these competing forces and so it is unique to each person.
5. I'm not sure how we decided to end it; is there a solid concluding or lasting statement we want to make?
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Effects of Television Content on Adolescents
As I was doing some research I came across this interesting article about the effects of television on sexual activity of adolescents. Here is the link if you want to take a look: http://www.rand.org/pubs/research_briefs/RB9068/index1.html
The article discusses two recent studies and their findings. The first showed that the amount of sexual content that adolescents view on television can result in sooner initiation of sexual activity. The study looked at 1762 adolescents between the ages of 12 and 17. They were surveyed in regards to their sexual experiences as well as the amount and type of television they watch. One year later they were surveyed on the same information. There were three categories of sexual content that they looked at. The first one was the amount of kissing, touching and depictions of sex. Second they looked at amount of discussion about sexual desires and plans, and third they analyzed amount of talk about sexual risks, waiting, and contraception. They found that those who reported watching the highest levels of category one or two content were more likely to have initiated sex one year later. Furthermore, those who viewed the highest amounts of category one or two content compared to those who viewed the least were two times more likely to have initiate sex one year later.
The second study analyzed effects of watching a single episode of the television show Friends. In this particular episode one of the main characters found out that she was pregnant even though she used a condom. The episode gives specific facts about condom efficacy. The results of surveys taken after watching the episode showed that the majority believed condoms to be effective, 10% talked about condoms with their parents after viewing the episode, and the majority of those who discussed with their parents said that their perceptions of condom use were changed. It was found that 1.67 million adolescents watched this episode when it first aired.
The results of both of these studies indicate that adolescents do pay attention to what they are watching and develop their values and morals accordingly. In addition they demonstrate that information about contraction can help education and increase communication with parents regarding sensitive issues.
I think that this information will be helpful in proving that media has an effect on virginity. It will also demonstrate that this effect is not always negative. I will continue to look at the effects of media by looking at other sources such as music, movies, and the internet.
RAND Health Publications. (2004). Does Watching Sex on Television Influence
Teens’ Sexual Activity? Retrieved November 10 2010 from
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Update on Progress
Video Outline:
- Google search
o Video of someone doing the search
o Show what comes up for image and web search of virginity
- Textbook definition
- Introduce concept of “virginity” as just a word
o While flashing slang words for virgin (deflower, v-card, pop her cherry, maidenhead, v-gripped, virg)
- Indentify focus on North American Society
- Why do these words have such meaning?
o Media, education, government, religion
- Education: Found these good videos about sex education in Ontario…(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJajAFCZPM4&feature=fvsr) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIz498m2X6Y&feature=related)
- (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PbhBgqLnPU&feature=related)
o Quotes
o Try to find an old sexual education video
o Pictures emphasizing how ridiculous the story is
o Emphasize how it still has implications today
o Talk about sex education in schools today
- Government: What else has government told us? age of consent, etc
o Look to authority to clear things up
o Should the government pay for women wanting to revert their virginity?
o Government spending on abstinence only (http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=409&Itemid=336)
o Video that we found (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5Xy-RQgLFI)
- Religion: who else emphasizes abstinence only?
o Use of fear to delay sex
o Cartoon
o Bible quotes
o Virgin Mary scene from a walk to remember (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GD08zTvaNl4)
- Media: recent outlet for sexual presentation
o Television comparison (I love Lucy vs. Sex and the City)
o Reality show (women selling virginity)(http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/tv/2010/05/10/2010-05-10_australian_filmmaker_takes_virgin_auction_reality_show_to_las_vegas_after_threat.html)
o Purity rings
o Music content (article about how music content effects teen sex)
- When you take the social meaning away from the word, at the end it is still just a word…so why does it have such impact on society?
To do: work on script for next meeting
Friday, November 5, 2010
Cross-cultural ages of females' first sexual experience
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Sex Education. 1890-1920
I found this really fascinating article on sexual education from 1890- 1920. I think it really relates to our topic of virginity because the education people were receiving was completely based on the fact that sex was for procreation ONLY – and people were therefore expected to wait until they were married.
Some interesting points that were discussed:
1.) The Semen Theory – boys were told that semen, through some process that was not yet understood, secreted special cells. If semen were not expended these cells would be reabsorbed into the blood and would allow for a boy to develop a deep voice, and grow a full beard. It was also though that if there was excess of semen cells that they would be reabsorbed into the blood, and travel up to the brain and would allow new thoughts and critical thinking. It led boys and men to believe that not having sex was necessary for the growth and develop of society
2.) What women were told: it was through sexuality and love that a woman fulfilled her “destiny”, which was creating a family. This was because families were thought to be, “the primary cell in which society flourishes.”
3.) Everyone was told that sex was for procreation. If men had sex with their wives for pleasure it was considered “legalized prostitution.”
4.) Believed that children were just curious and that if they taught them the general plumbing that their curiosity would be satisfied
5.) They feared “mental masturbation” (sexual fantasies) were more dangerous than actual masturbation because mental masturbation could be practiced with no limit
6.) Believed that dangers in reference to sex differed drastically between girls and boys. Boys were active, spontaneous, and aggressive and needed to be taught self-control. Girls were passive and were at risk of being “awoken” to external stimuli so they need to be scared (pregnancy) into becoming unresponsive and frigid.
7.) They believed that if they could convince children that sex was for reproduction only that they could eliminate premarital sex, prostitution, and excess sex in marriages.
8.) Attempted to instill the belief that the ideal relationship between a man and a woman was the one that a boy had with his mother and sister, or that a girl had with her father or brother.
9.) It was thought that masturbation would lead to sex for pleasure, so masturbation was NEVER talked about. Boys were also told that they were NEVER to touch their genitals and that if they had to for hygiene/medical reasons they were to do so with a pair of tongs. Girls were told to,"keep the opening of the nest covered, and to never touch it except to clean.”
Used venereal disease to help regulate behaviour by telling men that, “any girl who has given herself to you has probably given herself to others who have diseased you”
11.) Wanted to introduce sexuality to kids using books but were afraid that the books would fall into the hands of small children – ideally wanted to give information in one-on-one sessions but that was not practical. They began to secretly put it in other courses, like science, using plants and animals to describe reproduction.
Strong, B. (1972). Ideas of the Early Sex Education Movement in America, 1890-1920 .History of Education Quarterly, 12(2),129-161
A lot of these ideas probably led to a lot of the weight and values we place on virginity today. At one point in time men used to think that if they masturbated, or had too much sex that they would expend to much semen (along with specials “cells”) get sick and die, while women were taught to be frigid and unresponsive to sexual advances. Though today we all see that many of these ideas and strategies are ridiculous, I believe that they still have had lasting implications on how society views virginity.